Biased Approach Submitted by Artie on March 16, - Among the things you may be feeling are:. We sat at the kitchen table and talked and cried. The most I ever got was "nice girls don't do that until they're married. I stayed with the marriage.
I suspect that is why your boyfriend refuses to talk about it.
On the east coast where we were, being gay was still really hidden. Sex is a huge deal. For the men, the shame of being stigmatized as homosexual causes them to enter these marriages in the first place. I think you need to find a way to discuss this with your partner so he understands your feelings and toto let him express how he feels about the relationship.
They understand it more than I expected they would.